Helpful Resources
>> Thursday, February 9, 2012 –
adoption,
books,
resources,
The Folsoms,
The Forgetys
By: Courtney and Khylee
Once you decide to journey down the road of adoption, we (Courtney and Khylee) have found how absolutely vital it is to get educated, find sources of support and encouragement, and get helpful hints for the long journey that lies ahead
We have compiled a list of resources we have found helpful or inspiring below. So if you are thinking about adopting, are in the process of adopting, have family or friends that are adopting, check out these books, blogs, links to articles, videos, and kids books. (Also, if you have resource that has been helpful or encouraging, leave us a comment with it below! We would love to read them!)
Books
Fields of the Fatherless
Courtney
In Bible times, God maintained a special provision for the less fortunate. As His people harvested their fields, they were instructed to always leave a portion of the crops for those in need.
Today, God's heart continues to beat for the poor, the widows, and the fatherless. And as His children, our divine commission remains the same, a directive that's nothing less than the heart of the Christian message.
Author Tom Davis encourages us to move beyond words and become Christ to those in need. Join Tom as he shares a journey from around the world and our own backyard as people's lives are changed through the power of compassion. Filled with remarkable stories of hope and mercy, Fields of the Fatherless will inspire you to love "the least of these," and discover the joy found in becoming the hands and feet of Christ.
I loved how this book has story after story of REAL people that are living out the Gospel in their every day lives and being the hands & feet of Christ. I would recommend this book for ANY person. (adopting or not!)
The Connected Child
Courtney
This book was one of the required books our agency has asked us to read in our preparation. So reading can sometimes feel a lot like homework. Several other books have definitely felt like homework. I opened this book with the same expectations, but I was pleasantly surprised. I found this book to be one of the most useful books I have read dealing with adoption.
This book helped me understand how so many factors affect children and how discipline issues frequently stem from fear. Attachment, discipline, brain chemistry, and even nutrition were topics covered. This book also had actual, real, practical advice and strategies (which many other books I have encountered do not). I highly recommend this book for any family that is adopting.
Khylee
A great book from the point of view of an adoptive father and pastor. Russell Moore gives a solid theological stance for the necessary purpose of adoption along with giving practical advice for families just getting started in the process. The line in the book that still resonates in my mind is "Adoption is not charity, it is spiritual warfare."
Orphanology
Khylee
Another great theologically based book that combines the command from the bible to Christians to take care of the orphan (adoption being just one avenue) with incredible stories from the journey's of individuals who have taken up the cause of helping the defenseless.
Kids books
I (Courtney) have become sightly obsessed with children's books that talk about adoption or being perfect the way you are created. This book is great for ANY child. It is seriously just absolutely sweet & adorable. The book points out features we all have that are different but how they are used for the same tasks. "Our eyes are the same. They see, they blink, they weep, they wink."
The closing line of the book...
We're different. We're the same. We're wonderful.
Who wouldn't want their child to receive this message?
Links to other helpful blog posts:
- Adoption: The Heart of the Gospel by John Piper
- A GREAT guide on what TO say and what NOT to say by Jen Hatmaker
- Another great set of tips on what is appropriate and inappropriate to say by Under the Sun
- The real side of things once you get home (not for those with a weak stomach) by Under the Sun
- Lets be Real Guide to Attachment by the Farmer's Wife